Wow! See what happens when I'm away from the boards for a few days? Took me a looooong time to try to get through at least the majority of the posts!
My take on this is as follows:
I have always hosted in both the RDI and the RoH. A few years ago, when I took my hiatus, I was calling all three duels as well as calling for TDL. I had several characters that played in both RDI and RoH.
My main hosting character at that time always brought up things that happened in the RoH while hosting in the Inn and things that happened in the RDI when hosting in the duels. I have always tried my best to stir interest from each side to the other both IC and OOC. Way back when (yep, another of the old fogies here) I caught a lot of flack in the duels for mentioning things that had happened during my little red headed offical/tender's shifts in the Inn. It didn't really matter to me. She was my character, that was part of her life.
Yes, right after the split from the RDI, the RoH did have the feel of a red headed step child. And that wasn't really just a feel, it was pretty much a fact. We had little to no support, utilities, aid, etc. We all worked together to see the duels survive. Then came the time that AOL decided we weren't really a game. So they didn't want us in their games area. Then suddenly they didn't want us anywhere. When the RDI was threatened, and the RDI admins went to work to try to keep it alive, they helped us by bringing us as well as several other RP gaming areas and games to support that we were a high member area. So, things leveled out for a time and we had a new AOL appointed "Supervisor". Frank did work with us. Everything went well for a while, but started the downward slide just before I took my hiatus.
My hiatus had nothing to do with AOL ditching us yet again. It was personal.
I was really concerned that when I got back to being able and wanting to play again that my two favorite areas weren't going to be around. I was really thrilled to find both still alive and kicking. And to be honest, I couldn't find the duels in any of the searches I did. I found the Inn and the links from there. I was pretty emotional about that. Why? Yeah, it's just a game. But I gave a long time and a lot of myself to each of the duels and to DoM in particular.
So.. the point of all this? Recap a little of the history as I knew it as being one of the admins for RoH years ago. Because the RDIF has given a lot to the duels. Any of those who played before the break with AOL that comes back looking for us will find the duels again like I did. The RDIF fought with AOL for the Duels just as they did for the RDI.
Des and I still host both areas. Because we love them and the people that play in them. Because we believe in both areas. And sometimes I think because we both love being buried in projects, tasks and Amal as our wicked step mother

::dutifully dons her Cinderella outfit comeplete with soot smudges, grease stains from scrubbing the floors and those poor water logged hands::
As far as the Flash, it's been a new experience. There are some things I don't care for with it. There are others I enjoy a lot.
Yes, there are some RDI players that couldn't give a hoot about the Duels. Just as there are Duels players that prefer not to be involved with the Inn for long ago problems.
The thing is.. we're all here. The Duels are struggling. The Inn seems to have made it over the hump. And not just with old players. There are lots of new folks I've met that weren't around three years ago. Titles? Well, my characters respect them. All of them. Not just the ones for the Duels. But how they respond to a character is based on how that character presents themselves. When hosting and not, I try to make sure every character in the room is acknowledged in some way. The ones they know and recognise and those they don't. It's not just a part of being a good host on shift or off. It's being a role player. It's remembering when I first found the RP areas and trying to figure out how to get some interaction going. It's remembering how many times I'd wished for someone to give me some kind of small opening. It's remembering that I was a newcomer at one time and came to greatly anticipate and enjoy my times in these areas.
I want to thank the ones that mentioned Jal and I as greeting others and respecting the titles, in the Inn or the Duels, and acknowledging anyone that comes to a room I'm hosting. It's good to know it's noticed and worth mention.
But for me personally, I think it's time to really get past the old problems and all. That's all gone and so far over with it's unreal. It's time to figure out how we can all work together to enhance both areas. Otherwise, when we all start getting too old and crippled by arthritis to type, it's all going to vanish because we didn't work together to make sure what we've all worked so hard to build remains for others to enjoy. I kind of like the idea of eventaully being able to tell my grandchildren about the things we encountered and had to solve to make the area they're playing in and enjoying.
::hops off the soapbox, scribbles her name for posterity and saunters off to unleash the sea wench turned Carpathian on Rhydin::